Whatever your love goals are, they must start with Self-love.
The practice of
Self-love is the foundation of your power to create the life you want.
You cannot give love genuinely unless you RECEIVE the love that the
Universe, the Divine is constantly flowing to you.
Only when you open your heart to receive the love flowing to you are you
signaling your ability to receive more love. Only when you are full can you
give of yourself fully. Self-love teaches us to receive. It teaches us that
we DESERVE to receive. It teaches us to give ourselves Unconditional Love.
When we love ourselves unconditionally we are able to love others
unconditionally too.
Love is the primordial matter of the universe. Self-love is the deep
experience that you are made of that powerful matter and that the universe
nurtures you every day with abundant flow of love because you are an essential
part of the universe.
See our
tools for self-love.
Self-parenting
One of the most fundamental practices of Self-love is
Self-parenting (which includes Self-mothering and
Self-fathering. For women, start with Self-mothering. For men,
Self-fathering usually comes first, as it may be easier for most men to
access their Inner Father than to access their Inner Mother.)
Self-parenting is the process of rescuing your Developmental
Selves (Inner Children and Inner Adolescents) from the place in
the past where they are stuck. These Developmental Selves have been
left behind, like lost soldiers in a forgotten battle. They are wounded and
afraid, trapped in a limiting set of beliefs that do not allow them to grow.
They see themselves as powerless.
See our tools for Self-parenting
Body Intimacy
Body Intimacy is the other
fundamental component of self-love. With so much pressure to be thinner,
younger or to respond to other people's ideas of beauty, we are bombarded
with stimuli that makes us hate our body or find ourselves deffective.
Body Intimacy heals your
relationship with your body because it is the art of listening to your
BodySoul and understanding your body's subtle, sensorial and soulful
language. It includes breathing, posture, alignment and many other skills
and knowledge that allow you to embody your Unique Essence, becoming
your Dream.
See
our tools for Body Intimacy
Soulmate
Another type of love is
Romantic love. For those who have be, it's the nest to come after
a flight and the wind under their wings.
If you don't have it, your goal
may very well be to find your soulmate. This is a great goal, one that I
share with you. However, I strongly recommend that you begin with
Self-love as the foundation for your quest.
Here's why: I have noticed that a
lot of people these days are searching for their soulmates as the fix-all
and be-all in their lives. It's the new Santa Claus. When their soulmate
come s/he will bring them all the love they now lack in their lives!
But this is not how it works.
Love starts with yourself. If you want to prepare for your soulmate, begin
with Self-love.
Then get this tool for attracting your soulmate.
Romantic Love
If you do not love yourself, you
will not be able to receive love from another. If you do not love yourself,
you may find yourself in relationships with people who will reflect this by
being unloving to you. Few people will love you more than what you love
yourself. And those who do, will only be heart-broken, because you won't be
able to tolerate their love if you do not love yourself completely,
unconditionally, without judgment.
That is the Law of Love.
Look at your life and see how love is flowing now. You are looking at how
you are flowing love inside yourself, love FOR yourself. You are
seeing a mirror of how you receive the love that is there in the
universe flowing to you! Do you let it in?
See our tools for self-love.
Healthy Love and Family Relationships
Once you begin to heal, you begin
to attract healthier relationships. You want to create a love relationship
that enhances your Self-love. You are able to share the happiness and
love you feel inside with another.
If you are searching for tools to
improve your love and family relationship, here's our favorite one.
See our tools for love relationship
Freeing yourself from Toxic Relationships
Sometimes we are caught in the
transition between dysfunctional and healthy love.
We've changed, but the people
around us have not. We find ourselves in relationships of all type with
people who abuse or neglect us, who are toxic, who do not support our dreams
and who diminish our self-esteem.
If you are in that place and you
are seeking tools to free yourself from toxic relationships and find
healthy, loving relationships, we have tools to help you with that.
See tools to break free from toxic relationships
Love for your Purpose or Dream
If you are not where you want to
be, chances are that you need to develop more Self-love. one or two
things may be happening:
• You are demanding too much of yourself
• You do not love yourself enough to allow yourself to be there.
Here’s a tiny example:
| If you want to be among the great
stars in your field, but you are not there yet, are you pushing
yourself to be over there, over the horizon, feeling that where you
are right now is not enough? Then you are demanding too much of
yourself.
Are you doing what you need to do to get there? Then
why are you frustrated? Why do you judge or berate yourself for what
you do not have yet? Do you see and value what you have done and where
you ARE right now? |
See our tools for Succes
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